Restraining Orders and Protective Orders
Domestic violence cases in San Jose almost always involve protective orders. Understanding the different types and how to respond is critical.
Emergency Protective Order (EPO):
- Issued by police at time of arrest
- Lasts 5 to 7 days
- No hearing required
- Prohibits contact with victim
- Automatically expires when replaced by Criminal Protective Order
Criminal Protective Order (CPO):
- Issued by judge at arraignment
- Lasts duration of criminal case, typically extended to 3 years (up to 10 years)
- Part of criminal case, not civil matter
- Prohibits contact with victim
- May include stay-away orders (must remain 100+ yards away)
- May prohibit contact with children or shared residence
Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO):
- Civil order requested by alleged victim
- Separate from criminal case
- Requires court hearing (you have right to contest)
- Can last up to 5 years, renewable
- Can include custody and visitation orders
- Can require you to move out of shared home
- Can prohibit gun ownership
DO NOT Ignore It: Even if you believe the allegations are false, you must comply with all orders or face arrest and additional criminal charges.
Attend the Hearing: If you receive notice of a DVRO hearing, attend with an attorney. This is your opportunity to contest the order and present your side.
Prepare Evidence:
- Text messages or emails showing relationship context
- Witnesses who can testify about the accuser’s behavior
- Evidence of your good character and lack of violence
- Documentation of false accusations by accuser in the past
Request Modifications: If the order interferes with child custody, employment, or other critical needs, your attorney can request reasonable modifications (e.g., allowing electronic communication about children, peaceful contact at custody exchanges).
Never Contact the Protected Person: Even if they contact you first, even if they say they want to reconcile, even if you believe the order is unfair. Any contact violates the order and gives prosecutors additional ammunition.
Violating a protective order is charged under PC 166(a)(4):
- First offense: Misdemeanor, up to 1 year in jail, $1,000 fine
- With violence or credible threat: Felony, up to 3 years in state prison
What Counts as a Violation:
- Phone calls, texts, emails, social media messages
- In-person contact, even accidental
- Third-party contact (asking friend or family member to relay message)
- Going to victim’s home, workplace, or other locations they frequent
- Indirect contact (posting about them on social media, sending gifts, etc.)
Prosecutors take protective order violations extremely seriously. Even if the alleged victim initiates contact, you can still be charged. The solution: document all contact initiated by them, do not respond, and notify your attorney immediately.